When you love someone,
You give it your all until every last strength and ounce of love has been given but never expecting for anything in return.
When you fall in love with someone,
You don't plan to do so, or imagine what that would be like. From the very beginning you feel as if you've been attracted to that person, and slowly as you get to learn more about them, their good habits, bad habits and all that, you just love them for who they are. Looks however, are not the main key in falling in love with someone. Everyone has their own beauty and this beauty is what attracts them. This, is what I call the law of attraction. When you fall in love, you didn't have that person sketched out in your mind, knowingly referring her/him as your soulmate. Most of the time you think that you know what you want but in fact, you only have a vague idea about them. It isn't until you see them, and get to know them, that you then know, that this is the one person that I want to get to know better, and want to share and make beautiful memories together.
Everyone is beautiful in their own way, that is what I always say. But you can never compare one to the other. You can say Angelina Jolie is beautiful, but you can also say that Jennifer Aniston is beautiful as well. But how do you define beautiful? Is it to say that you can compare these two and because you can find the similarities between them that you can conclude that they are indeed, alike and are beautiful. Yet, one cannot come to that conclusion you see, because they are both different, while Angie is beautiful in her own way, thus so is Jen. They are both beautiful but uncomparable. They are both beautiful but not the same. With that said, I come again to the conclusion that everyone is beautiful, in their own way, and what makes them extra special in the eyes of another is what I would call the Law of Attraction. Picture this. If you see someone pretty walking on the street, and all you ever wanted to do was to get to know them better, and you tell your friend that you'd like to know her/him. They will either say a) oh yeah nice! b) no way dude not my type. If it was a), they'd agree with you that she/he is beautiful and they would also want to try to get him/her, or they may agree with you but they can't find that special connection thus rendering a oh-ya-she's-beautiful-but-no-she's-not-for-me. If it was b), then they'd probably think that that person was just a-okay and that's all and couldn't figure out what it was that made you like him/her. Yet, you find that person to be so attractive to you, everything about that person, you want to know better. That, that right there, is the connection between you both, an attraction that is actually unexplainable, something, that only you can understand.
If you are married, then think what made you choose your husband/ wife and think carefully how did you come together. If you are in a relationship then picture the first time you laid eyes on each other and decided to make that move. If you are single, then think about your crush or the person you admire and wonder what is it that makes you like him/her so much that some people may even call you crazy, but all you know is that you are attracted to that man/lady .Think about it, seriously.
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