Inner Beauty

It has always been a debate which really matters most when you are searching for your soulmate.
People have many versions, and standpoints, in which I would not go against, but rather just explain what I think of it.
For me, personality trumps looks any day. People are all thinking,
"ah you gotta be kidding me! there is nobody that can say this is a true statement"
But, I tell you, I beg to differ.
I think that it is important that the person I like, is someone that has a greater inner beauty or personality than looks. That will be the main thing that I go for in someone. It is not to say that I do not look around for the occasional heartthrob that is hot and sexy, and yes I do admit, that it is here that looks matter, but when you come down to it, I wouldn't find myself thinking of them more than that.
Of course, if inner beauty is paired with looks, that is just an added bonus, but what is important to me, is their personality, what is inside, what they think, how they act, what are their thoughts, these are the kind of things that you can hold on to as we mature later.
There is no doubt that we all will age, and the one thing you can never hold on to is the deteriorating of the outer beauty. So what if you are stick thin(outer) now? Are you healthy and contented(inner)? These are the kinds of things that will change(outer). But the things that don't, is your heart, and what you feel for others, your empathetic quality, that is the most important thing, cos when I'm old and wrinkly will you still love me then? If you fell for my beauty then you probably wouldn't, but if you fell for my inner beauty, then you would because no matter what day it was, no matter the possibility of us looking terribly old, we still love each other because what we have for each other in our hearts, that is what that counts.
So, I'm saying that this type of thought is not for everybody, because believe me, I know, most people would think in their heads (and wouldn't say it out loud) that I was a crazy ass for thinking that way, and that looks are important to them, and it's just crazy that I don't think it is.
And when I reflect back on what I have gone through so far, I realized that I am mostly the type of person that falls in love with someone's personality(and sense of humour ahahahaha). Maybe your looks weren't so outstanding (to some or most people, but of course to me, the one that loves you for both your personality and whatever your looks may be, comes to think that your looks are pretty special as well, which in some cases you can prove to be my prince charming), but as we became friends, each and everyday I learn something new, each and every day I learn to like you more because you are who you are and not what you are, each and everyday I learn to like your thoughts and what you keep in your heart and it thrills me to learn a little bit more about you each and every day.